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Are you a procrasti-learner?
Procrasti-learning in action!

Procrasti-learning in action!

“Procrasti-learning”

Denise Duffield Thomas

The term procrasti-learning, coined by Denise Duffield Thomas, refers to our ability to go on (and on) researching and learning about a topic to put off taking action on a task or project while justifying this to ourselves by calling it “research”. Alternatively, procrasti-learning can present as delaying starting a project by finding something unrelated “but essentially important” that you need to learn about “right now”.

How do I know if I’m a procrasti-learner? Here are some clues…

  • Building a website could be your specialist subject on Mastermind but you haven’t yet registered the domain name for your new business idea.

  • Your calendar reminds you that you have 3 follow-up calls to make after a networking event this week, but learning how to make pasta from scratch for the evening meal becomes an essential way to spend the afternoon (and the chances are you’ll still rip open the packet of dried fusilli come 7pm)

  • You have no idea where the last 4 hours have gone, but you can now explain what the little coloured squares at the bottom of toothpaste tubes are for.

Why do we do it?

Like most forms of procrastination, procrasti-learning is a way of managing the fear associated with our work being judged, which we can perceive as personal judgement. We can tell ourselves that we are positively and proactively learning about a topic that is essential to the success of our business (and the interwoven personal success). That we are making progress and moving forwards and that we will take action when the time is right and we know EVERYTHING. Internally we have the perfect justification that we are busy and productive while not actually having to put our work “out there” for judgement.

Tips to break the procrasti-learning habit…

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Image by @kellysikkema

  1. Prepare a list of the essential things you think you need to learn at the beginning of a new task or project, then set a “stop researching, start doing” deadline. Share this deadline with an accountability partner who you trust to tell you to “stop faffing” and then learn all that you can up to that deadline. After which it’s ACTION, ACTION, ACTION.

  2. Flip your mindset - dive into the project or task first and then adopt a just-in-time approach to learning as you go.

  3. Reward yourself - if you genuinely love learning new things, give yourself the gift of a new and unrelated learning experience AFTER you have completed the task/project you’ve been procrastinating on - just don’t use this time to procrasti-learn about your next big scary task!

  4. Take a sheet of paper and divide it into two columns. In the first column, write down all the subject areas you are knowledgeable about and interested in. In the second column write down the name of at least one other person in your network who also knows a lot about your subjects of interest. Next time you are tempted to start “researching” and diving deeper, email or message that person and then keep working until the response comes in. There’s a good chance that a) you’ll answer your own question and b) you’ll have finished the task before the reply hits your in box. If the reply suggests a modification to your task - it’s a quick update and not a reason to dive off down the nearest rabbit hole.

  5. Change state, and go for a walk/do a workout, getting those endorphins flowing will help to embed your learning and encourage action on returning to the task.

Think you would benefit from peer accountability? Check out The Club Networkout sessions


What's Blocking You? - Understanding Barriers to Getting Started
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Image by MagnetMe

We’ve all been there - staring blankly into space, waiting for inspiration to strike or living in fear of the deadline getting so close we can no longer avoid starting the “thing” we’ve been putting off.

When this happens it’s easy to become so overwhelmed we feel incapable of taking ANY action - in a word we’re BLOCKED!

This blog guides you through a series of questions to help get you unblocked and take action.

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Next time you catch yourself saying or thinking “I can’t do this now”, consider the following…

Time

  • Is this the right time for you to do this?

  • Could you do it at a different time?

  • What needs to change in your schedule to allow you to do this?

  • Are you prepared to invest this time?

Are you ready to take action? If no, move to…

Task

  • Why is this task on your list in the first place?

  • Do you know exactly what the required outcome of this task is?

  • What is it about this task that makes it difficult?

  • Can it be broken down into smaller “chunks”?

  • Do YOU have to do it?

  • Can you ask for help or delegate this?

  • Why is this task important?

Are you ready to take action? If no, move to…

Skill

  • Do you have the skills/abilities to complete this task?

  • What else do you need to learn?

  • Do you want to invest the time/money/energy in this learning?

  • What else will you be able to do if you master the skills required to do this?

  • Who could you ask for help?

Are you ready to take action? If no, move to…

Belief

  • When in the past have you overcome something similar?

  • What was the outcome then?

  • What did you learn from that experience?

  • How did it make you feel?

  • What is different now?

  • How does that change your view of this task?

Are you ready to take action? If no, move to…

Identity

  • What is your personal identity right now?

  • Does this task fit or conflict with your sense of self?

  • Does this task challenge or uphold your values?

  • In what way does this task challenge or uphold your values?

  • What are the consequences of NOT doing this?

  • Do you HAVE to do this?

What action will you take?

These are the types of questions that could be asked during Active Coaching sessions with Kelly, helping you get unblocked and take action.